I Samuel 20-21; Psalms 56, 34
Jonathan demonstrates that he is far more worthy of the crown than Saul, his father. Jonathan is a man of honor, integrity, virtue. He is selfless and faithful. He is a true friend and brother to David. And in all of that, he remains a true son, honoring his father and remaining loyal to his king without betraying his friend.
Right from the outset of today’s reading we see Jonathan honoring his father by refusing to believe that Saul would seek David’s life. (I Sam. 20:2) After the previous incident of Saul’s rash vow wherein Jonathan himself could well have been killed, this perspective is remarkable. One might expect Jonathan to quickly believe the worst of his father, but he doesn’t. He does just the opposite and honors him in accordance with the LORD’s commandment.
When Saul verbally abuses Jonathan for defending David, and then hurls his spear at him, Jonathan does not turn and conspire against his father. He does not attempt an assassination, nor does he flee with David. Instead, he sticks by his father. Even in warning David — in apparent defiance of his father — Jonathan ultimately honors Saul by preventing him from humiliating himself, either by murdering David or by being killed in the attempt. Contrary to Saul’s rantings, Jonathan is an exemplary son.
Jonathan is also an exemplary friend. Risking his own life, he protects David, knowing full well that he is also giving up his own prospects for the throne. He puts David ahead of himself. He seeks justice and pleads David’s cause. In wisdom he follows the truth and proves himself to be true.
Selflessness. Courage. Honor. Faithfulness. Humility. Loyalty. Friendship. Kindness. Wisdom. Self-control. Love. Perhaps we could learn a thing or two from Jonathan.
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