Matthew 10:16-11:1
For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. (v. 35) Note what is not said here – a son-in-law against his father-in-law. It seemed strange to me not to have this fourth relationship listed until I thought about the world back then. When a daughter married she went off to live with her husband’s family. Think of Rachel and Leah leaving their father Laban to go hundreds of miles to Jacob’s family. So the other three relationships existed (while the daughter was unmarried), but the son-in-law had little to do with his father-in-law. Interesting.
Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for My sake will find it. (v. 39) Occasionally I “worry” about my current life. I have it pretty easy. I stay busy – even “busy” with spiritual things – but I am not persecuted, I am not fearful for my life or my family or my possessions. I often think of Mark Bruner in Czechia and the difficulties that he and Tommie encounter so often. Or the stories that I’ve heard from when the Soviets took over in Czechoslovakia in 1948 (see my comments in the first link below) and Christians suffered such persecution – and that only one average-age lifetime ago! Have I really, truly lost my life for His sake? Or what can it mean for us to lose our lives for His sake? My consolation comes in an earlier verse: So everyone who acknowledges Me before men, I also will acknowledge before My Father Who is in heaven… (v. 32) That I’ve done; I’ll just trust Jesus for the rest.
See also: May 10 / Matt. 10:16-31; May 11 / Matt. 10:32-11:1